i might have fallen in love

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tsooml · #21 Post by **tsooml** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 8:10 am

"This boyfriend of hers is "new" and "far away"? And she likes being with you?

Sounds like all you need is to keep up the friend thing and let her brainparts do the rest. Just be patient."

silvermoon · #22 Post by **silvermoon** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 8:40 am

yup, be a friend to her, respect her feelings, but do not give up hope, cos u get on well together. just remember, the balls in her court now, and it is up to her to decide how she acts. yup, be patient, and respect her by just staying by her side and supporting her

Picknick · #23 Post by **Picknick** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 12:05 pm

good advice, thank you very much guys

I65 · #24 Post by **I65** » Sat Nov 04, 2006 12:53 pm

All love that has not friendship for its base, is like a mansion built upon sand.
Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Pitman · #25 Post by **Pitman** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 8:52 am

Makes me wonder what she sees in this other guy who is a long distance thing. Why pick someone who is vacant over you? Sounds to me like she's denying what is right in front of her.

lemoncupcake · #26 Post by **lemoncupcake** » Mon Nov 06, 2006 4:01 pm

Long Distance things are weird. After a while the feelings sort of fade and you both want to end it but don't really know how.

Picknick · #27 Post by **Picknick** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 3:41 pm

feels weird tho, i truly care for her. But i do want to be her man.. so i want her present relationship to fail no? pff weird feelings.

She had a bad day at school yesterday, her mentor constantly gives her negative remarks, never says anything positive (we're both teachers to be, for primary school) but i managed to cheer her up

i've seen her stand in front of groups giving little lessons, and i tell you she's gonna be such a great teacher! a really warm, caring, fun, smart teacher, i'm sure the kids will love her. Every person has his/her diff way of teaching, that mentor should really understand that pfff!

Picknick · #28 Post by **Picknick** » Wed Nov 22, 2006 1:16 pm

Well her bf is already acting like a loser..
He doesn't seem to care much for her, he hasn't come and vissit her since 11/11/06 :s he cares more about hanging out with his friends, which he can see whenever he wants all week. And he's been making quite a few other lame excuses.. I felt this would happen.

It really sucks tho :s she talks about it and you can see the tears in her eyes, it was so hard to look at her sad pretty face, it makes my eyes go teary aswell.

silvermoon · #29 Post by **silvermoon** » Tue Nov 28, 2006 7:15 am

its almost been a week since your last post, picknick. how are things in your life now, if you don't mind me asking?

I65 · #30 Post by **I65** » Wed Nov 29, 2006 1:02 am

silvermoon wrote:its almost been a week since your last post, picknick. how are things in your life now, if you don't mind me asking?

I have to agree, you need to get us up to speed.

And I don't care if you mind if I ask.

Picknick · #31 Post by **Picknick** » Sat Dec 23, 2006 9:43 am

Hey everyone,

Yes it's been a while. Well so much has happened, been focusing on my schoolwork. Been making so many friends at school, i'm quite happy with my life, the right girl will come along at some point. The guy left melissa, which i predicted, she still like him, she's quite naïve.. ahwell, i'm just having fun with some new great friends from school, and it's christmass soon yeey!! enjoy yourselves people!

lemoncupcake · #32 Post by **lemoncupcake** » Sat Dec 23, 2006 10:06 am

Sorry to hear the guy left her. Hopefully she'll learn from that experience, and get on with things. There's nothing worse than a girl stuck on someone like that, i know i've been there.